So I forgot to post about this one, so now I am a little out of order on my blogs....OOPS....
So when Tim and I first started dating I was extremely jealous. We worked together and there were several girls who liked him and his personality was great. He is a flirter by nature, that is just the way he is and I will never be able to change that, I just have to accept it. We would argue about it all the time and then one day I finally told myself that I need to stop this nonsense and suck it up. I knew that he loved me and that I was who he wanted to be with, I just had to get over my insecurity. Now when he "flirts" with someone I just smile and think to myself, he will be at home with me tonight and he will be sleeping in our bed with me.
I support my husband in every activity or hobby or project that he does. I give him encouragement and ideas and my ear to listen when he needs to talk it out with someone. He is the same way, well maybe not the listening part. :) But if I am having a hard time with something, he encourages me to keep at it and I will eventually get it. I am so proud of his accomplishments.
i have come to realize that I do not need to worry about his negative attribbutes and just focus on the positive attributes. Ican not change him I just have to understatnd and acknowlege that these things are what make him who he is and I just have to look past them and keep moving forward and not take two steps back.
Heather
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Heather,
ReplyDeleteThese are all so good!! Why aren't you posting them on the site?? I wish you would so that we can all see how you are doing and so you can be an encouragement to others doing the dare's also!